Dear Coach Richt,
I want Gurley to play and I know you do, too. I live in
Tuscaloosa, Alabama, and FOR THE LOVE (!!!), I want Georgia to win.
I heard you say once that you want to win as much as anyone
does. In fact, your record of 126-45 (as fourth best winning percentage in the
country for active coaches) proves it. I also heard you say that you want to
help these boys grow to be great men, husbands, and fathers. This may be the
tallest task in today’s world of coaching college football, and I want to
personally thank you for being a man of your word.
Your benching Gurley does not mean that you don’t
stand behind your player. It means that you do stand behind your player by
choosing what is best for him and for your team and for the University. Even
when it hurts. ESPECIALLY when it hurts. It means you stand for a lot more than any one player.
Football matters. Georgia football in particular matters a
whole heck of a lot at my house. I am a fourth generation UGA graduate, and my
grandfather was quarterback of the Dawgs in the 1930’s. He was on the Athletic
Board that hired Vince Dooley as Georgia’s head football coach.
He also won the Bill Hartman Award, given to former athletes who have distinguished themselves by demonstrating excellence both professionally and in service to others. He had a plaque that read “I’m Bulldog born and Bulldog bred, and when I die, I’ll be Bulldog dead.” That’s sort of our unspoken family motto.
He also won the Bill Hartman Award, given to former athletes who have distinguished themselves by demonstrating excellence both professionally and in service to others. He had a plaque that read “I’m Bulldog born and Bulldog bred, and when I die, I’ll be Bulldog dead.” That’s sort of our unspoken family motto.
Wearing the red and black jersey and stepping onto that
field meant more to him than winning and losing. It meant that he represented
the University of Georgia and the whole Bulldog Nation in everything he said
and did.
His Varsity “G” hanging on my wall stands for more than a bunch of “W”s. Every Bulldog knows it stands for the very first state chartered university in the country and for every graduate, faculty member, and administrator who has walked under the Arch, out into the world to make a difference.
His Varsity “G” hanging on my wall stands for more than a bunch of “W”s. Every Bulldog knows it stands for the very first state chartered university in the country and for every graduate, faculty member, and administrator who has walked under the Arch, out into the world to make a difference.
If UGA is first an educational institution, what are we
really teaching? A lot of lip service is done in college football about what is
learned on and off the field. But we all know that winning has become ultimate,
at any cost, to the detriment of any man, even if that man happens to be the
best player in college football.
Whether charges are NCAA violations, code of conduct
breaches, or criminal allegations, star players have swagged their way onto award stages, largely unscathed
in the last few years. Sadly, we have thrown Heisman trophies at them and elevated
them so high on pedestals that I’m not sure they believe they could ever fall
off.
In these past scenarios, the quiet cover-ups and lack of disciplinary action tell us that in collegiate sports, winning is supreme. College football is damaged. Forget what we are teaching these boys and all the little ones watching about what it means to wear a jersey, to be part of a team, part of a University, part of something bigger than yourself.
You, Coach Richt, know exactly what that
means.
We teach these ideals on our children’s sports teams, but
when it comes down to it, parents want to win at all cost, too. I heard
yesterday a local flag football team altered their flags to be shorter
than regulation so they would be harder to pull. Really? And we expect these
eighteen, nineteen-year-old kids who are thrust onto a national stage to
respond differently?
But when allegations were made with the highest stakes in
college football, you and the administration at UGA took the high road down an
unpopular, largely unprecedented, and tumultuous path. Guilt or innocence
aside, actions have consequences.
I wasn’t in the closed door meetings about Gurley’s situation, but I can imagine you, wrestling with this decision, knowing you are subject to something greater than yourself, greater than any player, greater than any championship hope.
I wasn’t in the closed door meetings about Gurley’s situation, but I can imagine you, wrestling with this decision, knowing you are subject to something greater than yourself, greater than any player, greater than any championship hope.
I have heard for
years that Georgia football has a discipline problem. I know that every team
has discipline problems, but Georgia actually
chooses to discipline our players for them. Thank you for living that out when
the nation scrutinized your every move, when the decision was
unpopular, when the precedent said otherwise.
You are standing the test. You did not shrink under
criticism or pressure. I have never been more proud of the diploma on my wall
or of the red, red blood running through my veins. As Herschel said, “Being an athlete is about
more than just playing the game.” And being a coach is about more than just
winning. You are proving it.
After all, as the ancient proverb says, what does it profit
a man to gain the whole world yet forfeit his soul? While college football
has forfeited its soul and failed these young men, you have not.
And if this letter ever makes it to you, I want you to know that I for one am grateful.
Go Dawgs,
Mary Grace Alston Lyon
